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The past Thursday my boyfriend of 6 months breaks up with me over a text message. The whole past week he was very distant and I was guessing something was up. The Wednesday before the break up we actually had made plans but again he was very distant.
His Text message said: “I know this doesn’t mean much but I’m sorry. I’m not the right guy for you, you don’t deserve someone who does this to you. I couldn’t live with myself if I kept dating you. I’m not a good person.”

He wouldn’t pick up any of my calls that night or answer any of my other text messages. I’m a girl so of course I freaked out.. And part of the reason I had such a hard time with it I believe is because I can’t tell you how many times he said “You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.” or “I love you so freaking much.” And then there has even been nights where he’s begged me not to leave him.
So Friday his Mother calls and tells me that I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him and that both his parents are on my side. And that they’re gonna get to the bottom of what’s going on.

Now he has had a past of 5 other girls he’s had sex with. Endless break-ups, all of that crappy stuff, but I over looked it.. And he’s also in the Army. (Not to bash anyone in the Army, just giving background information.)

Now Saturday his bestfriend calls me and says he’s so sorry for what’s happened. But he also tells me that He’s been cheating on me for the past 6 months. He had sex with his Ex before he left for 8 weeks of training over the summer. Did it again with her when he got back.. And the past week he had been fooling around with two different girls. And of course his Bestfriend is saying “Don’t tell him you’ll get me in trouble.” But honestly in my opinion I know no one wants to be ratted out but if my now ex doesn’t care about me why would he be mad at his bestfriend?

Then still on Saturday night, one of my friends out of anger for what he did texted him and said he’s made the biggest mistake ever and he’ll regret it.. And he said “I’ve got my entire lifetime to figure it out.”
A couple of friends of mine also attended a party Saturday night that he was at.. And everyone at the party had heard that he broke up with me. No one would look at him or talk to him. He stood by himself until he eventually left the party.

So then This morning The Ex boyfriend texts me again cannot call me and starts bitching me out. Saying I’ve ****** up his life with his family and friends.. When I’ve heard so many times from both his family and his friends that I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him. He continues on by saying that his best friend doesn’t know a thing about him and he broke up with me for “Torture of loosing me.” He told me I was making stuff up in my head about him cheating.. But when I brought it up to him, he immediately changed the topic. He made me feel like everything was my fault.. When I called him a liar and using me for sex he said “You don’t know me at all.” Then he ended it by saying to get out of his life and never talk to his family and friends again..

How could he go from begging me not to leave him to I hate you in a matter of days?

So what I’m getting out of it is.. He just wants sex without commitment.. He wants love without being faithful.
Am I right? What’s your overall opinion? Please only honestly and truthful answer, no BS. Am I better off without him?

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Yes, you are better off without him. Everyone you know is saying you’re the best thing that happened to him — they’re not saying he’s the best thing that happened to you. He’s cheated on you and then tried to turn the tables. There isn’t anything good here for you. My advice is to move on. You can do a lot better than this.

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