[coacj]

Hi April

I met this 34yr old woman back in July at a music event. Her name is gabriella and her body is sexy. She was feelin me alot, she asked me how old I was and I said I’m 25. We would have talks over the phone and texting as the weeks went by. We went on our 1st date back in late august. We took pics together, she kept calling me sexy, she kissed me on the cheek as we took pics together. Me and my friend went to a event Gabriella was having and just by observation my friend thought she was feelin me alot. We went on a 2nd date and that went well, she thought i had other girlfriends cause the way i look. We went on our 3rd date lastnite. I was flirting with her alot she liked it and kept saying that I was bad. She wrapped her arm around my arm as we walked down the street. She kept tellin me how good i smelled. I mentioned that I spoke to her sister on Facebook and the 1st thing she said was ” oh u flirting wit my sister now lol”. So as the night came to an end I was gonna give her a kiss goodnite and she avoided the kiss! I said “come on are u serious, give me a alittle on the lip”. She gave me a quick kiss and put her face up against my neck. I said come on are u serious?” she said her breath stink, cause we went for drinks. I didnt believe it, Im Iike come on, she then said thanks for the evening, but by that time I was done. I don’t understand why she frontin on kissing me. That really annoyed me. Does this mean she’s not intrested?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like she likes you — but maybe she really did think she had bad breath. And, she’s trying to figure out if you’re a big player or if you really are interested in her. Give it another date or two, and if it appears things aren’t moving in the direction you’d like, then move on.

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[coacj]

Yea but she told me she thinks I’m a nice guy, but u still think that she would see me as a player? I know the 2nd date we had she said ” I know u got female friends” and I said ” where did that come from? Cause I don’t”. She then said “come on u a good looking guy, u look like u would have options”. But I didn’t take her serious I thought she was just joking lol

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The hints that she’s considering you to be a player are:

1. She mentioned that you look like you have a lot of girlfriends.
2. She told you you were “bad”, which is short for a bad boy, which means someone who’s a player.
3. She thought you were flirting with her sister, which indicates you’d be flirting with other women, too.

And finally, it seems like she did like you, but perhaps didn’t kiss you because she decided you weren’t the kind of guy who would be serious about her.

Like I said before, if you take her out a few more times and it becomes more clear to you that she’s either interested or not interested, you can make a more informed decision on what to do next — pursue or move on. 😉

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[coacj]

If that’s the case then every girl I met in the past thought i had a bunch of female friends. I get this from almost every girl I meet. I’m not tryin to sound coky or arragant but I can’t help it if I look a certain way. I sent a text to gabreilla to ask her why she did that tues night but I didn’t hear from her yet.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The way people look and the way they behave sends messages to others. That’s human nature — in fact, it extends to the animal world, too. While you may not want to change your look, if you choose to, you can change your behavior (not flirting with her sister, etc.) — but you certainly don’t have to.

You’re annoyed because you expected and wanted one thing from the woman, and she expected and wanted something else. Either one of you budges, or you go your separate ways. 😉

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[coacj]

I honestly was not flirting with her sister, we jus spoke about a picture that caught our attention on Facebook. Maybe she is a little insecure. But gabreilla responded back to my text and this is what she said

Gabreilla- “Hey handsome. I apologize but I’m not ready for that just yet. I want to get to know you better. I also don’t kiss right away. I have to really spend more time with the person. I’m not very sexual especially because it’s the beginning and I’m super careful. If it happens it happen. Don’t push just let it flow”.

This is what I said- “I agree wit that But all I ask for is communication, and that goes for anyone that I’m in close contact with. cause if either one of us does something that is off key and no one says anything or why they did it, it looks like game playin and I’m not down wit that. So jus be up front wit me on an I’ll be upfront wit u”.

[coacj]

I honestly was not flirting with her sister, we jus spoke about a picture that caught our attention on Facebook. Maybe she is a little insecure. But gabreilla responded back to my text and this is what she said

Gabreilla- “Hey handsome. I apologize but I’m not ready for that just yet. I want to get to know you better. I also don’t kiss right away. I have to really spend more time with the person. I’m not very sexual especially because it’s the beginning and I’m super careful. If it happens it happen. Don’t push just let it flow”.

This is what I said- “I agree wit that But all I ask for is communication, and that goes for anyone that I’m in close contact with. cause if either one of us does something that is off key and no one says anything or why they did it, it looks like game playin and I’m not down wit that. So jus be up front wit me on an I’ll be upfront wit u”.

What do u think of my response to her

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I think your response sounds a little bit patronizing and less inviting. If you want to win her over, then focus on that. 😉

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