So I was on vacation in Florida and met a guy on tinder. I told him I wasn’t looking for a hookup and he said he said that’s totally cool, he wanted to meet me. So we met for coffee and we got along really well and talked for a long time. When I was about to leave he kissed me and said he had been waiting to do that the whole date. He left his sweater with me so that I’d have to see him again before I went back home to Wisconsin. The next evening we met on the beach and made out for a while. Nothing else happened, but he was very cuddly and said he was going to miss me and that I should move to Florida. I was a little surprised because I was assuming he was just wanting to get a little action before I went home. I’m back in Wisconsin now and we added eachother on Instagram. His most recent photo had a comment with a girl saying “my man ” with a heart emoji. So I went to her bio it had his name in it and a Lock emoji. Now I wasn’t upset, more concerned for the girl. So I asked him how long they had been together and he said they’re not together anymore, he broke up with her because she’s crazy and he didn’t want to talk about it. But he still wanted to keep talking to me if I was ok with it. I asked how long they were together and he said “only 3 days because she’s crazy. I haven’t talked about it to anyone and it deals with more personal things so I don’t really want to.” I left it alone assuming it wasn’t a big deal because we weren’t going to stay in contact. It’s been 16 days since I’ve seen him though and we’re still in contact. Now we haven’t had any texting conversations since I asked about his ex. We are each others best friends on snapchat. We are both really flirty with our snaps and there’s definetly something there. Yesterday he said he wanted to come visit me and asked if he would stay with me or at a hotel.
Long story wrapped into one question. I really can’t read this guy. There are a lot of signs that make me think he’s a player and just looking for girl attention. But then there are some things that make me think otherwise. I’m at a loss. Would someone trying to play me really fly all the way to Wisconsin to hook up??
Any thoughts?
