[sweetstephen]

April

My problem is this. I work with two lovely ladies who we will call June and May. Basically I was really good friends with both of them until a month ago. Then June went on holiday for two weeks and in that time I started a relationship with May. When June came back she reacted badly to our relationship and is refusing to talk to either of us. I would put it down to jealously but both these ladies are totally out of my league and I feel honoured that one has chosen to have me as a BF. All I have going for me is a good heart and a sense of humour. I am not a handsome prince and I am just average looking. So I just cannot figure out why two gorgeous women are fighting over me. I am flattered here but confused as I reckon women should fall out over the handsome guys not nice guys like me. I am not a Boring Nice guy but I am not a Real Bad boy either. How do I get April and June’s friendship back on track?. I thought they were faking it at first to boost my ego but they have become really catty towards each other OVER ME. This is every man’s fantasy but not mine. A possible explanation from a women’s perspective would be appreciated.

[lilxmizxdanielle]

if 2 friends like one guy, that will ruin a friendship. girls love attention, and since you were giving it to may, it makes since that june was upset. if you like both of them, you need to figure out which one you want to be with, and tell them both. if you only want a friendship with both of them, then tell them that.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s not your job to get these two women’s friendship back on track. In fact, you can’t. It’s really their choice to be friends or not. Clearly they both liked you and when you chose one over the other, the dynamic between the three of you changed.

Enjoy the romantic relationship you have with one of them, and be kind and empathetic to the other one — but be realistic. If they don’t want to be friends, that’s between them and is their business.

[Jessica Jezzy]

The best you can do is respect their decision and give them time to process things. sometimes friendship getting complicated when dating is involved. only the two of them can decide if their friendship is valuable to them and if they can forgive each other.

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