[starex]

Hi april, i’m in abit of a mess here. Me and husband have been happily married for 5 yrs. 2 kids. Never had any problem. but i just found out that my husband tried making a move on my sister. She turned him down. My parents told me about it. I talked to him.He did confess. But its gonna take time for things to get back to normal. We have a trip booked one week from now. Quite an expensive non refundable trip of $3500. It was our first trip since our honeymoon. I don’t know what to do. He was just perfect. very supportive to me and my family. Always proved himself. I don’t know why he did something that stupid. Please tell me what to do with the trip and how to get our marital life back to normal.

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Take the trip since it’s already booked and paid for — and because he’s apologized and you have a family at stake here. THAT SAID….use this time you have together to find out more about why he did what he did and if this is new behavior that was triggered by something in his life that you don’t know about (or have been in denial about) or if he has hidden a pattern of cheating on you.

Making a move on your sister is a cry for getting caught. If he wanted to cheat and get away with it, it would be a lot easier to choose someone random who you didn’t know — let alone to whom you are related to. 😕 Does he feel like he can’t get your attention or is jealous of your attention that is going elsewhere?

Use this trip as an opportunity to get to know each other better. A betrayal like his can be the end of the marriage, or it can be entry into a bad patch that you get through.

Let me know how things go.

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