One of the things that cuts peoples’ sex drives is familiarity. Although you love your girlfriend and you feel close to her, what’s probably missing is that mystique that creates sexual excitement that most people have in the beginning of relationships, but then lose naturally along the way. In order to make long term relationships work two things have to happen.
Although you’ve tried some things to spark her interest in sex, I’m going to suggest you try my book written for couples exactly like yourself with exactly your same problems. It’s called Romantic Date Ideas and you can download it for $14.95 right here [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url]. This book gives you over a dozen different scenarios for dates that get you out of your same old same old ruts and give you both a chance to see each other anew.
So give the book a try and let me know how it works for you, and which dates in particular, work best.
In addition, if your girlfriend truly is tired, chronic exhaustion can really cut her sex drive. Rest is the remedy. If this may be the case, consider giving her a luxurious day off where you draw her a hot bath with candles, soft music, and leave her to the tub alone. Then when she’s done soaking, give her a great, relaxing massage with nice, fragrant oils, and sit with her over a glass (or a bottle) of wine and talk to her about non-stressful things, while you gently stroke her legs and caress her fingers. All this relaxing may put her in a much more conducive mood to have sex after having worked long hours all week.
Let me know if these suggestions help. 🙂
