Alright, I will apologize in advance if this is a lengthy post. I just joined because I want to know other’s opinions on the situation I’m in. First things first, I am married and I have one child with my wife. Now a little background, basically I am very unhappy in my marriage. Me and my wife met each other and she got pregnant 2 weeks later, I don’t believe we were right for each other now, but I am one to go along with the motions. Basically what happened was back in december me and my wife were really on the rocks, fighting every day, etc. I met this girl at work and we began to talk, she knows I’m married and what started as occasional texting turned into an everyday, every hour, every minute we were texting and talking to each other. I would purposely leave my house just so i could talk to this girl. I guess I quickly develop feelings for this girl, however she has a boyfriend at this time as well. After about two months of us talking, she breaks up with her boyfriend. Our relationship really doesn’t change, except that we talk even more. During this relationship this girl always tells me that she doesn’t want me to leave my wife because of her, but we do end up telling each other that we have feelings for each other. Although, we both agreed to not break the physical barrier because of my situation. So now we are about 4 months of us talking everyday. To make a long story short, I go on vacation and the next thing I know she is back with her ex boyfriend and now states that she doesn’t want to talk to me and that she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore. I guess my question really is: Was she just using me because I gave her attention or did she really have feelings for me? And if she did have feelings, how could they go away that quickly? It was literally within two days that she just stopped texting me… Now i’m in a horrible depression because i Feel like I lost my chance with maybe a great girl because I couldn’t get up enough courage to leave my wife and tell her how unhappy I am. Any advice would be great
