[john123]

Hii, i broke up with my gf after a 5 months relationship, because my jealousy is out of control. i didnt talk to her for exactly month month, then she came to me after 30 days asking me if we can be friends. Sometimes i feel like she wants to get back, she always talk about how she feels empty and she keeps touching me, we talk and see each other almost every day. Any help if she really wants me back or any tips on how to get back to her i really love her

[April Masini, your AskApril]

First of all, you can’t be friends, especially so soon after a break up. Accept the fact that you’re not friends — you’re exes, and there is a big difference. If you do want her back, then you have to keep from falling into a friend zone — which as you can see, is very difficult to get out of. I think that if you want to get her back, you have to do two things simultaneously: 1) Focus on dealing with your jealousy since that’s what broke you two up, and 2) Ask her out on a date and “woo” her back. It’s very simple — and very difficult at the same time, but that’s the best way to deal with this situation.

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