I keep answering your question, but you don’t seem to be satisfied with my answer. It sounds like you want to know if he used you or not, and really, it sounds like he dated you for three months, decided you weren’t someone he thought was a good match for him and moved on. I’ve told you several times already that his feelings for you appear to have been genuine because guys don’t introduce girls they’re dating to their parents unless they consider the relationship to be important to them. Now, you want to know if he was using you for sex. Probably, in the beginning he was because having sex on the first date means neither one of you knew each other very well, and men have sex because you’re willing. Since you were, he had sex with someone he didn’t know very well, so, yes, he did have sex with you without having any deep feelings for you on that first date. However, it sounds like the two of you agreed to continue dating, having sex, and that he did develop enough feelings for you to introduce you to his parents.
I hope that satisfies you! It really sounds like you’re having trouble moving on. One of the reasons I advise women not to have sex too soon is because when you do, you get attached to the man before you really know if he’s someone who’s going to be compatible with you or not, and women try to leverage having sex into having feelings — which is what you’re trying to do now. So, next time, wait to have sex until you know him better, and won’t have questions about his intentions if something doesn’t work out between the two of you.
Since you’re not dating him any more, take what you learned, and move on. It’s time. 😉
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