[Ninotchschika]

I’m going to have my first date with Mark on Sunday and I really like him. I am 19 and he is 21. We’ve been texting since last month, he got my number from our mutual friend and this is the first time we will meet in person. I’m so excited but also a little bit nervous because I don’t want it to be awkward. I want to get to know him better without making it feel like an interview or being aggressive. Can you give me some advice on what are good questions I can ask on a first date that are fun, meaningful and help me understand his personality? I want to make sure I’m showing interest and make him feel that I’m special.

[Nabiha]

You guys have been talking for a month, which means you have built up an image of Mark in your mind. The biggest problem on a first date is that a guy doesn’t come across as the same on the phone. Maybe he’s a big Alpha on text, but stutters in person, or maybe he talks so much that you don’t get a chance. So, keep your “expectations” low so Sunday doesn’t get heartbroken.
I think the best way to make him feel special is not to say yes to everything he says. But to challenge him a little. If he says something you don’t like, jokingly disagree. Men like girls who have their own stand “special,” not those who just say “Aww, so cute.”
Hi AskApril, what’s your opinion about,
Waiting for your expert advice.

[Marco]

Well, I think first you can start with his basic personal information—like where he lives, how old he is, and whether he is studying or working, and where he works or studies.
Then you can move on to his hobbies, what he enjoys doing in his free time, and his favorite places to go.

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