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What should or can I do, I really really like her??

So, this story is kind of complicated but if you can listen to it please do. So I met this girl like one month before high school ended. I started liking her in July which is too late considering how we are going to two different colleges. Her college is going to be in southern california while my college is in northern california. 1 hour flight away pretty much. We talk to each other a lot/text. I also hang out with her a lot too. We do a variety of different things such as watching the most random movies to going to different beaches. I mean, we enjoy hanging out with each other. We say that we have the most fun when each other is around lolol. The thing is college is majorly in our way I guess. I mean, I really think she is great and is really someone who I am looking for. I asked her why we can’t make this happen and she said “I don’t want lingering questions before college. I like you as a friend, just as a friend. I mean, 2 weeks isn’t even enough time to develop anything, even to strengthen our friendship. sorrry, maybe another place, another time”. We actually talked about this whole thing and stuff. I mean, I understand since I didn’t like her until like the last month of summer and I didn’t meet her until 1 month before school ended. I mean even after we talked about it we still hung out a lot and talked/texted each other as much as we did from before. I know she doesn’t do this with other guys but continues to talk this much with me. Well, the thing is right now I’m on vacation and she starts school much earlier than me. I won’t see her until Thanksgiving at the earliest. I don’t know, I just find it really depressing how I found someone who I really like and bam time is a big issue. Please help me out please. I really don’t know what to do but I seriously want to be with her. serious answers pleasee
well my friend who is close friends with her too told me that if this was like December or earlier she would have liked me back but like there really isn’t time now. Like I know she doesn’t talk this much with other guys.
I mean even now, since I’m on vacation in a foreign country, we still keep in touch. We write each other emails and still talk online.

[Ask April Masini]

Timing and geography are very important in relationships. They help determine compatibility. Since you’re too far away to date or even get to know each other better, you’re not compatible, and she’s made that clear. 😳 I know you’re disappointed, but it’s important that you accept reality and not stay stuck in your feelings.

My advice is that you look for someone terrific to date who’s either a student at the same college you attend or who lives in the same area. When you come home for Thanksgiving, if you’re not involved with someone else by that time, definitely look her up! Same with Christmas.

But overall, it’s important to find a girlfriend who you can actually spend time with because you’re physically able to! 😀

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