I am what you described as the “Nice Guy” in a response to an advice seeker at you site. I give too much of everything, my time, care, concern, availabilty etc. I sometimes feel she no longer respects my feelings. She sometimes talks to me without consideration or regards to my feelings. How do I gain control the entire affair and become the man?
If you’re the nice guy who’s getting walked on — stop being that nice guy. Don’t be so available. Have your own life that comes first and foremost. Wait to respond to her calls, e-mails and texts. And that’s just for starters. Read this question from a reader, and my response: [url]https://www.askapril.com/dating-tips-why-nice-guys-finish-last-1029.html[/url]. I think it’s going to help you a lot. And if you want more, you might want to invest $8.99 in the book I wrote for men who want to win the dating game, Date Out of Your League: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. 🙂
Hope that helps — let me know if you need anything else.
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