[Pebbles17990]

So, there’s this guy at my church, lets call him Ken. He goes to my bible study and he was talking to this one guy that I sort of know and I had overheard him mention that he’s from Florida, and since I’m from Florida too, I asked him what part he was from and he told where, and it turns out that his hometown is only a 45 min drive from where I used to live. After I told him where I used to live, he kind of cocked his head to the side and had this small grin on his face and kind of looked astonished at finding out where I had lived. Shortly after that, the study started and during the entire study, he kept glancing over at me and, as odd as this might sound, he kept pointing his feet at me (I know that’s probably an old wives’ tale, but I honestly believe it to be true cause every guy that I’ve ever seen do that has ended up confessing his attraction to the girl his feet were pointing at.)… After bible study was over, he kind of sheepishly walked over to me and my sister-in-law and told her what we had learned about each other earlier that evening, and really the only way I can describe how he acted was like a cartoon… He’d sweep his foot on the ground and would look at me, but when I looked directly into his eyes, he’d “flutter” his eyelids and quickly look away and then glance back. Whenever I spoke, he would look at my entire face and not just my eyes, so he would look at my eyes, then my forehead, then my nose, my mouth, and then my eyes again.

This happened last week, and I’ve been constantly replaying it in my head! Everything that was mentioned above, is exactly how I remember everything happening. I know that’s not necessarily gonna create a 100% truth, but that is what happened and with things like this, I tend to be really good at recalling them, word for word, action for action…. He’s currently out of town, and seeing as how it’s currently fall break at his university, I won’t be able to talk to him til he gets back into town sometime next week.

So, any ideas?

OH! One more thing! I added him on Facebook the next day, and like, right once I sent the request, he accepted it!! PLEASE HELP!!!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

The best way to know if a guy likes you is if he asks you out on a date. And while it sounds like he does like you, it wouldn’t hurt you to flirt with him, giving him something to chase after. Guys love to give chase, and when you flirt, you let him know you’re interested in him, without coming out and saying so. 😉

If you want to read more about this, my book, Think & Date Like A Man, will give you lots of tips and advice. Here’s the link for the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

Hope that helps!

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[Pebbles17990]

Hey April! Thanks for the reply. Your advice on flirting is really great, and I will definitely be checking out that link, but now I have another question. When normal people flirt, they know what to say and what to do. Whereas, I do not know what to say or what to do when flirting. Whenever I try, I feel like I turn into a duck that is quaking obnoxiously with a sign hanging from it’s neck that says “horribly flirting” and then it ends up driving the guy away and everyone else in the room stares at me!

How do I make my flirting less noticeable?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You know, the book I recommended has lots of tips and advice on flirting. 😎 I think it’s going to give you the help that’s more extensive than I can give you here. It’s an automatic download, and the book is only $8.99, so my advice is you buy it and read it this week! Here’s the link again: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]

Hope the books helps you. 😀 😀

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