[nbasuns13]

Hello everyone! There is this girl I like a lot however I seem to mess up all the time when it comes to girls. I really don’t want to fuck up this!! :p I’m using my phone so it might be a bit harder to read sorry. Basically my friend had a party in a club. All of us went and I first met her on the dance floor. We are from same school but never spoken to each other before. She was cute and has a lovely smile so I went close to her and started dancing with her and the people around. Everything went well and I talked to her for a bit as well (like hi how are you blah blah blah). I dance funny but in a good way (apparently :p) so I was like showing my moves and she laughed and gave me the smile. I had some alcohol, didn’t have much as I could still remember everything. However being a bit tipsy really gave me the confident to say something I really regret afterward… So here was I a bit tipsy. After dancing for quit a time went close to her and said what I really think “hey u have a beautiful smile 🙂“. She looked at me and gave me the awakard smile. Noticeably she started tried to move away from me. So I was like shit I fucked up again? Didn’t want to creep her up any more so I didn’t get any closer to her that night. The next day I was like I def creep her up, I never talked to her before and I’m like 2 yrs older than her… We walked pass in school and I felt embarrassed so I tried to avoid eye contact. However she didn’t seem to care and just walked pass me with that smile again. Not sure was to me or.. Now we are in Christmas holiday so we can’t see each other. I added her on Facebook and thought if she takes ages and don’t response I am done. But she did, quite quickly actually so I was surprise. Now is her birthday next week. I’m thinking of sending a message saying ” hey nice seeing u the other night. Hope I didn’t behave badly. Happy birthday btw!!” Something like that. So should I send it and what else can I do?? I am extremely sorry for the long story. :p

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You didn’t do anything wrong, and I don’t think you should apologize. I’m not sure how old you both are, but I’m guessing she doesn’t have a lot of experience dating, and she felt a little shy when you complimented her on the dance floor. But that’s her issue — not yours. Like I said, you did nothing wrong!

My advice is to try to get to know her little by little, and the more you do so in person, the more comfortable she’ll feel accepting compliments from you and realizing you’re a good guy and not just a guy from a nightclub! Invite her to have coffee or take a walk or see a movie — simple things that are “safe” and not a big commitment, but that will allow both of you to get to know each other. 😉

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[nbasuns13]

Thank you very much for the reply. However I am not able to see her for the next month so I was thinking to send her a message on Facebook. Can’t chat either due to different time zone 🙁 therefore what kind of message will be appropriate an not be weird? Thanks in advance 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s fine to send her a FB message, under the circumstances, while school is on holiday and you’re in different time zones. Don’t come on too strong and keep the message that you want to get to know her better and you’d like her to get to know you better. 😉

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