[1963cb]

Dated someone for 14 months, thought she might be the one again somewhere down the road. Thought I did it all. Open car doors, doors, help with coat/jacket, helped her around her house, washed the dishes after dinner so she can relax, was there for her emotionally and physically, supporting her, always telling her what a great person/mom she was because her self esteem was low due to bad relationships, and 2 bad marriages. Flowers for no reason to brighten her day. Became very close with her 3 sons and especially her granddaughter, treated them like they were my own. She told me I was everything she ever wanted in a guy and was looking for. We hardly ever argued. Then poof out of no where she changed and found out she was talking to a old boyfriend who cheated on her . I’m devastated. And can’t move on. Keep blaming myself thinking what did I not give her

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Since you’ve already started a string of posts on this site, please re-post this as a “reply” on that string so I (and anyone else who wants to weigh in), can see your history in one place. You’ll get better advice this way! 🙂 I’ll look out for your re-post! Here’s your link: .

[Herry]

A woman who would leave a “perfect” man for the sake of her children and granddaughter and go to a cheater who has already humiliated her doesn’t need your love; she needs therapy. You tried to set the “vibe” of her life, but she likes to live in the trash.
Roll up your dishwashing hands and get out of there. The investment you made wasn’t wasted; it was just in the wrong place. Next time, choose someone who will consider your effort as worth it, not a burden.

[Member]

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