[Mike]

I’ve been courting a girl since last month, let’s call her Camille. I don’t know if I really have a chance with her. She’s sweet and we are happy when we’re together but there are times she seems distracted and I’m not sure if she might eventually say yes or if she only sees me as a friend. Maybe she doesn’t want to reject me because she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. I really like her and I don’t want to pressure her to give me an answer but I still hope that one day she realize that she likes me too and feel happy with me. How do you know if a girl likes you back but is just shy to admit it because it’s still too early? Are there signs that show you still have a chance with someone you’re courting?

[Michaela]

You can tell by how she acts when you’re together. If you feel like she enjoys being with you, there’s a good chance she’s interested in you too.

Just keep courting her and put in more effort so she can appreciate what you’re doing. After a few months, around three, and there’s still no clear answer, you can ask her what your status is with each other.

Tell her you’re not trying to rush things, but you’ve been courting her for months and you just want to know if you have a chance or if you’re just waiting for nothing.

[Logan]

It’s the “she’s cute but confused” thing; usually, it’s a one-sided soft response.
And anyway, if a girl is really interested, she won’t put you through the guess game
She’ll make an effort, give hints, and sometimes it’ll be pretty obvious.
Ask April needs your expert advice because the situation has become a bit confusing. The atmosphere is nice, but there are no clear signals. Sometimes it seems like she’s interested, and sometimes it feels like she’s just politely distancing herself.
Tell me the truth: is this just hesitation, or a clear signal that the interest isn’t that strong? And in such a case, should the guy wait a bit or start thinking about moving forward now?

[Member]

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