You’re reading way too much into a bunch of text messages! The bottom line is that you met him once, five months ago, and a week ago, he asked you to hang out, by text. You seem to have rejected him because there was a five month time lag.
You have to understand that sometimes people aren’t ready to date when they meet you, but they can’t forget you because they want to date you. When their own life is ready to add you in, they’ll ask you out. If you’re ready at the same time they are, and you’re interested, too, then you have a potential date! 😀 But timing can be everything.
Sometimes people meet when they’re in high school and aren’t ready for serious relationships, but ten years later, they are. Sometimes people meet when they’re involved with someone else and then nine months later, they’re both single. It’s a mistake to blame them for not keeping in touch during the time they weren’t available to date, when they finally do ask you out. It isn’t wrong for him to have not been ready to date you when he met you five months ago. Now he’s ready. 🙂
I think texting as the main source of your communication is one of the problems. A lot can be misinterpreted by text, e-mail and online or other electronic communication. Bottom line is that if you’re interested and open to a date, then you should make that clear and see if he’s a guy you want to date — by going on one with him! 😉
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