[Brian132]

I’m in highschool and single. I hope that doesn’t disqualify me from getting an answer in here. On the bus everyone was playing around on Snapchat (two sisters and a friend of mine. We all joke around) and I got my phone out with mine open and one of the girls was sitting by me and she snatched my phone and added me. We started snapping just joking around then she started sending selfies and sometimes saying she was ugly randomly. On the bus she’ll start talking to me about some of our Snapchat convos and at school when we see each other in the hallway she says things like “Brian’s gay” and jokes around about me to her friends. She has a boyfriend that I’m kind of friends with and she doesn’t talk to me around him. On Snapchat it seems like she kind of likes me and I think I kind of know what it means when girls send you selfies and say their ugly and she is totally different to me irl. What could the deal be with this situation?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

She likes you! 🙂 And when she tells you she’s ugly, which she obviously isn’t, it’s a cue for you to tell her she’s not ugly at all — she’s very attractive. In other words, this is her way of fishing for compliments. Hope that helps you understand the relationship dynamic that’s going on. 😉

[Sundus]

Hi
This girl is “Attention Vampire”, she takes compliments from you and lives with her boyfriend in real life, leave this girl on the “scene” for a while and see how she comes back on the line. It’s just high school; chill out and don’t take these ‘mixed signals’ to heart. AskApril gave expert advice that she likes you. But, April, I ask you this: if she likes Brian, then why does she make fun of him and why does she ignore him in front of her boyfriend?

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