[Anonymous]

i’m gonna try and make this short

this girl and I were dating for a month about 3 months ago, then she broke up with me because she had family problems that she said it’s hard to have a boyfriend and live among these problems she’s having. (we’re both in our 20’s)

so I told her I’d wait for her if she wants to because I really loved her, and she said that I should just move on.

from time to time she’s telling me that she misses me and that she wants to see me, but we had no luck in doing that because of her problems with her family.

there are times that she gives me hints that she loves me with dedications and such, but she didn’t say it straight forward yet.

and there are times that she just ignores and doesn’t reply to my texts or even talk to me (yesterday I texted her asking about how her day was and what she did and still no reply, and I’m 100% sure she read the texts (bbm))

so what do you think ? does she love me and wants me to wait for her? or just keep her as a friend? I’m confused with all of these mixed signals…

this girl really means everything to me. How can I show her that…
so tell me what you all think 🙂 and thanks in advance

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Relationships work when both people have enough compatibility, shared goals and are in the right place at the right time to have a relationship.

This woman is not ready to have a relationship with you and she’s made it very clear. There should be no confusion. You just don’t like the fact that she said she can’t have a relationship with you now, so you’re looking for ways to bend the truth and fool yourself.

You’d do a lot better to accept what she told you and move on. I’m sorry that’s not what you want to hear, but you’ll feel better if you let her go, as she’s asked you to do.

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