[HelpPlz32]

Ok i desperatly need advise here like ASAP please.Okay its two things that i am dealing with.One is i am white and my finace is black well he stated to me last night a phrase i am still trying to figure out and that is “I am not your tipical black man”,well what does that mean.See i can take that several way’s but pls help me with this and the second is i found out he chews tobacco and i am against that he says he wouldnt do it again but i caught him doing it again.What to do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

First of all, ask HIM what he means by his statement, “I am not a typical black man.” 😯 Ask him why he said it — what is trying to tell you about himself?

Second, tobacco is a drug, and if he’s chewing tobacco regularly, he’s probably addicted to it. It’s hard to go cold turkey and quit an addiction, so you might want to encourage him to get some help. In the meantime, get him a lot of chewing gum so he can chew gum instead of tobacco!

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