Over the course of the last three months I have worked very hard to slowly become more and more incorporated in a friends of mine live in hopes of a relationship to form. Over the course of the last three months I have gotten nothing but green lights to go ahead and start a relationship with her. However once a friend of mine found out I had feelings for her, proceeded to tell her how I felt and she told him that she indeed had feelings for me aswell. In the next few days I went to talk to her about it and she went on to say that she would just like to be friends and if down the road there are still feelings then we could revisit the topic but in the meantime she would like to just be friends. She had this conversation with me almost three weeks ago, however I feel my feelings are too strong to wait. She didn’t express why she didn’t want to do anything so I am unaware of there is another guy or if she is just not ready. Should I ask her what happened to her feelings for me and what went wrong? Also do I wait patiently and hope for something to happen down the line or do I admit my feelings to her (as I never was able to explicitly tell her how I feel from myself) and hope for a change of heart? If any clarification is required to help answer id be more than happy to supply more.
