If you’ve been the other woman for 7 years, I’m not sure why you suddenly thought he’d change. 😳 And if all you’ve been doing is “fooling around” for 7 years, again, I’m not sure why you think anything was going to be any different. He’s made it very clear he doesn’t want marriage or monogamy. If you do, I’m not sure why you think he’s going to give it to you, now, when he’s been so clear that he’s not interested in it. That’s why my advice is to that you get a child support agreement with him, and if you can’t, go to court and get an order for him to pay support and see his kids on a regular schedule. Then you need to get your personal life together and be a mom to your kids.
When you’ve got all that under control, if you feel ready to date, read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], the book I wrote for women who want to find, get and keep Mr. Right, and learn how to date so next time around, you don’t waste time or energy on someone who isn’t the wrong guy. 😥
I know you’re upset, but you need to pick yourself up and turn your life around.
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