He makes the move. Even if he’s shy. 😉
What you can do, however, instead of making the first move, is to flirt with him more than you have been so that he’s clear that you really like him, and are interested in dating him. If you do that and he still doesn’t ask you out, then you should assume he’s not interested. 😉
But don’t take the opportunity for him to ask you out away from him, and don’t confuse yourself further by asking out a guy who you think is too shy to do the asking, but whom you’re not sure if he likes you enough to ask you out anyway — if he says yes, and you have a date where he’s still shy, you could end up even MORE confused! 😉
I know it’s frustrating to want someone to do something on your time frame, but the way around that is to seek out other guys, be busy with lots of things, and don’t put all your eggs in one basket.
Hope that helps!
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