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Who makes the move if guy is shy?

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    froglover123
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    I go to college and for a few months during classes I noticed a guy who used to sit near me in between classes when I was doing work. Everyday he sat a table or two away from me and I would catch him looking at me and he would quickly look away and not say anything. He ended up being in a few of my classes and we had to create a group for a project. Long story short he ended up being in my group. Since we started having to work together, he now sits with me almost every morning and talks to me. We now talk quite a bit and our groups of friends sort of merged into one large group. We hang out quite a lot and I really like him. My question is, I think he is probably very shy. Is it ok to be the one to make the first move or do I just continue dropping subtle hints and hope he works up the courage to ask me out? I go on break soon and I don’t really want him to wait until after break is over because I really like him but I’m not sure if it’s mutual. I don’t want to get hurt and I don’t want to scare him away.

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    He makes the move. Even if he’s shy. 😉

    What you can do, however, instead of making the first move, is to flirt with him more than you have been so that he’s clear that you really like him, and are interested in dating him. If you do that and he still doesn’t ask you out, then you should assume he’s not interested. 😉

    But don’t take the opportunity for him to ask you out away from him, and don’t confuse yourself further by asking out a guy who you think is too shy to do the asking, but whom you’re not sure if he likes you enough to ask you out anyway — if he says yes, and you have a date where he’s still shy, you could end up even MORE confused! 😉

    I know it’s frustrating to want someone to do something on your time frame, but the way around that is to seek out other guys, be busy with lots of things, and don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

    Hope that helps!

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