[Mister R]

Hey April,
I’m 18 and I been talking to a girl for about 3 weeks. Things was going great. She text me every day, we joked around and even planned to hang out a couple times. Sometimes we do video call and playing mobile games. I really enjoy talking to her because she is a nice girl and have a sense of humor.

Then… nothing. She just stopped replying. I messaged her a couple times, still no response. I got no clue what happened and it’s driving me crazy.

Why people ghost like this? And how do you even move on without just obsessing over it?

[Gerald23]

It’s possible that she lost interest in you, or she found someone else she likes more. There are really people like that, sometimes they don’t know how to properly say they don’t want to continue anymore, so they just ghost instead.
It might be better for you to just look for someone else. For sure, what you feel for her isn’t that deep yet since it hasn’t even been a month.

[Arslan]

Three weeks is often an audition period. Maybe she got an ex back or found a new “project” that was more entertaining than you.
You said she’s a ‘nice girl.’ Bro, if she were actually that nice, she would have at least sent a single text saying, “Hey, I’m not feeling it anymore.” Disappearing without a word isn’t exactly a trademark of nice people.
Ghosting only happens when the other person is afraid of confrontation or feels like explaining things to you isn’t a priority.
The best way to move on? Build up your self-respect. She didn’t reply? Well, game over. Don’t lower your level by sending her more messages to find a “clue”.

[Karyll Jane]

Maybe she already got a boyfriend and he doesn’t allow her to talk to other guys. Still, it would be better if you could find out directly from her why she suddenly disappeared but don’t waste your time waiting for her.

Keep yourself busy and try to move on. Sometimes, there are just people like that when they suddenly lose interest, they disappear from your life like a bubble.

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