I recently met a beautiful woman and we had a good first date. The attraction and chemistry was there, and soon we slept together. We’ve have sex every other night for about a few weeks, and then she brings up the subject of having an exclusive relationship.
But I let her know up front during our date that I just recently got out of a relationship, and I’m not looking for anything serious. Then after a few more weeks of sex with no commitment on my part, she wants to call off the whole relationship because she can’t have me exclusively.
What’s strange is she claims that she’s never had the kinds of pleasurable sexual experiences with any other man before she met me. And I don’t even go to her for sex, she willingly comes to me. So I’m like: If the sex is so good, why are you giving it up because you can’t have me all to yourself? I’m very attentive to her in bed, I let her know that she’s beautiful both inside and out, and I listen to her when we pillow talk. And with each of her hints at wanting an exclusive relationship, I gently remind her where I stand. I enjoy her and the experiences we share, but I just don’t want to go out on dates or be exclusive to anyone right now.
So my question is two-fold: Why will some women stop having great sex if they can’t have a commitment? And how can I maintain the sexual relationship without her expecting more than what it is?
This has happened to me on more than one occasion, and I’m trying to understand what’s going on. Thanks.
