[anonymousssss]

Me and my boyfriend have tried working things out and he texts me everyday and says he wants me to be his girlfriend and loves me and wants only me. But he never makes the effort to hang out with me. It seems like he’d rather spend his time with anyone but me and when I try to talk to him about it he gets mad and says that that’s not the problem at all. I just don’t know what to do. If he wants me to be his girlfriend and he “loves” me why doesn’t he make the effort to see me?

[LynnRu]

Well, it’s a pretty interesting situation you’ve got there. And the reason he treats you like so could vary.

-He may enjoy the title of boyfriend…having a girlfriend, being in a relationship, it just sounds good to him. It is an ego booster for him
-Sex. I’m not sure if you guys participate in sexual activities but if you do he could be using you to recieve that
-He doesn’t want to lose you. He doesn’t get anything out of the relationship anymore. It could mean less to him. But, he’s still holding on because somewhere in him…he really does need you. And the thought of not having you is scarier than the thought of being in a bad relationship

Hope that was some help!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’d love to answer your questions, but first…. please repost this as a “reply” to the string of posts you’ve already begun on this site here: . It’s much easier for me (and anyone else here who wants to chime in) to give you better advice when we see your entire history in one place.

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