[dolphin9457]

I broke up with my boyfriend January 16th 2015. He text me once a week regularly. I never reply. Until this last Tuesday, he text that his dog was at the vet and they didn’t think she was going to make it. I instantly text back and asked what happened. He tried calling instead of texting back. I did not take the call, I was at work. He text me about what happened and asked me to paint a picture of her for him. I agreed and asked for his po box and would mail it to him. I called him when I got off work, trying to get more details about his dog ( I have a soft spot for his dog). We talked for hours and he said he loved me more than I knew and wanted to take me elk hunting and vented about his work situation and life in general. Since then he calls 6 to 7 times a day and text me a a lot through out the day. He wanted to drive down from his place , 3 hours away and take me out to dinner. I said i was busy..I wasn’t ..just afraid to meet face to face, because breaking up with him was hard enough and I had and still have very deep love for him. He says he loved me.more than i knew.I don’t want to get involved again if there are not clear rules. I’m not a booty call and don’t want to be used for that. I’ve heard stories about letting your ex back and I do not want to be hurt. Please help.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you need to use boundaries with your ex because he’s very intent on contacting you and winning you over. The first thing you need to do is to ask him not to contact you again. That’s the best way to communicate your feelings. If he doesn’t respect your wishes, you can block him from your electronic communication — your phone and e-mail. It’s not a very friendly thing to do, but it’s hard to move on after a break up, and when he keeps trying to insert himself back into your life, you may find you have no choice.

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