[crazed-driver]

Why is it that people claim/say that they want children/marrige within months of people in a relationship or even move in with their partner permantantly and on some occasions it happens? Surely the right/normal/sensible thing to do would be give it atleast a year before they do anything that proves they are in it for the long term. Am I right here or being very cautious?

[Ask April Masini]

You’re being academic and it’s very hard to be academic when dealing with real life relationships. If you have a specific problem in your own life, let me know and I’ll try to help you. 😀

[crazed-driver]

So even though it maybe harder to deal with in real life. I’m right? I have 2 problems, none can be helped with. 1 is I’m addicted to this site 😕 HELP ME 😆 And the other one was what I posted on here, which you were brutal to me about, remember the anxiety forum? Plus I keep meeting women who are “No go areas” for one reason or another

[Ask April Masini]

You’ve posted a lot here, so I don’t always remember what you’re referring to unless you attach a new question related to an old one to that post. As far as you meeting women who are “no go” I believe I advised you to open up your world and start doing things differently and going to different places to meet different women. Did you do that?

If you purchase Date Our of Your League, a book I’ve written for men who are interested in improving their dating relationships with women, you’ll be able to read a section about specific places you can go to meet women. I think it will help! Here’s that link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. Purchasing these books also helps support the free advice I give to you and so many others. 🙂

I hope that helps. Please join me on Facebook — since I’m asking my readers to join, that’s another way you can help support this site that you seem to be getting so much from! Here’s that link: [url][/url].

[crazed-driver]

Well when I said the 2nd thing I needed help with and that you were brutal towards me in that forum. I was on about this forum http://www.askapril.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=34838 And also how do you manage to keep up and reply towards every form thats created,etc?

I have tried to do what you said about going to different places, etc. But its either quiet due to the place being unpopular or I dont know what to say as they’re strangers 😕 Saying that though, do you think i need to cure my original problem first, that i just mentioned above?

[Ask April Masini]

Please buy Date Out of Your League, as I’ve suggested to you [i]multiple[/i] times. It will give you tips and advice on where to meet women and how to engage them when you do. I appreciate that you want to make some changes to bring you a better yield, but [i]you have to do the work[/i]. Buy the book and read it. Here’s that link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

I’ve advised you so many times, (as I did to the older post you’ve referenced), but you’ve done everything to avoid buying and reading the book that will help you — and yet, you keep coming to me with relationship questions. I appreciate that you have concerns about women and finding confidence, and that at 24 you’re still a virgin, but unless you do [b]the work[/b] that needs to be done, nothing is going to change.

Being academic and intellectual and keeping people and relationships at a distance by debating theoretical situations is not going to help you, personally. I hope you’ll take my advice this time. I’ve certainly given you the same advice over and over again. Maybe this is the time you’ll hear it and heed it. 🙂

And maybe you’ll join me on Facebook, finally, too. I would appreciate it if you would become a member of AskApril.com on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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