[Anonymous]

I have been seeing a guy for a few months now. He is a bit older than me so this kind of relationship is quite a new thing. He owns a company and is therefore working a lot, especially at this time of the year. We get along so well and he is always telling me how much he loves seeing me and how amazing I am that I understand that he is busy.
He calls me everyday and I get a lot of messages from him just saying hello and saying that he misses me. He has susprised me so many times with flowers and gifts. He is the first to come and pick me up and just go for a drive and is always making sure I am ok (I live on my own).
I care about him a lot, but now that I know I won’t be seeing him every other day…I am starting to think if its really worth it. Am I just being selfish when I want to see him or if he really liked me, would he be making the time to even just go for a coffee? I am confused, I just want some advice on whether I am doing the right thing and being patient or whether I am just getting my hopes up.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

No man, especially one with an established career, is going to be able to see you every day in the first few months of dating — or even later in the relationship. If you want more from him, you have to entice him into wanting to spend more time with you! He’s successful because he’s able to balance his job with his social life and his family. Appreciate who he is and make the most of the dates you go on!

You should also read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url] so you understand more about dating and how to win the guy you want.

I hope that helps — let me know how things go, and I hope you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter!

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