[Nick Roy]

Don’t be nervous, this is normal. According to psychology, we are often attracted to people who resemble our family members because they make us feel comfortable and safe.
And it’s important to remember that your brother and your boyfriend are two different people.
You should pay attention to the things about your boyfriend that make him different from your brother. Then, the way of talking, his priorities, his scent, and the feelings he has for you.
Or give it some time; these gross feelings will go away when you focus on his Unique personality.

[Nick Roy]

Hi!
I read your entire story, and I think you’re getting too emotional. That girl isn’t interested in you. If she were interested in you, she would definitely go on a coffee date with you. April, I liked one thing you said,that He has kept the date very cool and boring. That’s why she thinks that the date is not important to him.
I don’t think you should send her any messages now.
Give her space. So if she messages you within a few days, assume she’s yours, and if not, move on and enjoy your life.

[Nick Roy]

I read your post, and in my point of view, you should not have a relationship with him. If you think you want to give him another chance, then ask yourself the question first.
Can I trust him again?
And what is the guarantee that he won’t flirt again?
My dear, if trust is completely broken, staying together just for the sake of crying or because of old friendship will only give you stress.

[Nick Roy]

April, I 100% agree with you. This isn’t just a dinner issue; it’s a priorities issue.
I still don’t understand your boyfriend.
Mostly, relationships are built on compromises. If your boyfriend is still holding on to old things after 3 years and doesn’t care about your feelings, that’s a red flag. But before breaking up, both of you should talk to each other and explain to him that your families are important too.
And Askapril is right that this is a deal breaker. If he can’t face your parents today, he will run away from the responsibilities he has to face with you in the future.
Love is not about being together happily; it is also about sitting together at a boring dinner.

[Nick Roy]

Hey, I’m really impressed with your boyfriend. Most boyfriends aren’t generous and neither am I. If he’s spending happily, that’s his choice and pleasure. Why are you thinking about it ? You should be happy. Give your boyfriend something special that is close to his heart. Sometimes a thoughtful surprise leaves a greater impact than thousands spent on it.
Here I agree with Askapril that it shouldn’t be a competition. Make him feel just as special as he makes you feel but in your own style.

[Nick Roy]

It seems like you are getting too emotional in this relationship. Tell me one thing.Have you talked to her openly about how his behavior makes you feel?
In my point of view, a girl who is truly interested gives not just words but time, attention, and consistency.
Askapril’s is absolutely right here, love is not proven by just saying “I love you,” but by attitude and preference.
Meeting only once a week and not following through on your promise to message is a sign of low interest. If you feel like something is wrong, So please don’t ignore your feelings.

[Nick Roy]

I think it’s natural. Sometimes hormonal birth control can drastically reduce sexual desire, and this can disturb the relationship. Love is not just about emotions, it’s also about physical compatibility.
I appreciate April’s advice, and I think it’s better for both of you to talk openly about how to handle the Intimacy issue so that you will be able to find a solution that respects both of your needs. I hope it will make your relationship beautiful and enjoyable again.

[Nick Roy]

Steve you shouldn’t be worried.i think its a normal thing.
Here I agree with AskApril.
It’s good to be excited in a new relationship, but if you’re nervous, you should talk to your girlfriend openly, I hope she will understand you and this way your anxiety will disappear.
This helps you both stay on the same stage without losing that ‘honeymoon’ spark!

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