[Adem Lee]

He’s 42; he knows exactly how the game is played. He knows how to keep a 28-year-old girl hooked on his words without actually lifting a finger.
Stop texting him. If he isn’t booking a flight to see you next week. Block him, and find someone who is closer to your house and will actually take you on a date.

[Adem Lee]

Sister, that man is not in love with you; he is just looking for some free entertainment and a side chick. He has only been talking for eight months. He is not in love. He is just bored and wants to spice up his boring married life.
Block him because he won’t give you the respect you deserve.

[Adem Lee]

Oh dear, how long will this reply take? Leave the game for children. The girl is online and is replying to people from all over the world, but not to you. This means that you have fallen off her priority list and have come to the “entertainment” section.
AskApril was absolutely right that she was looking for a boyfriend. If you are not becoming that guy, she’ll give her time and attraction to someone else who will date her and not just “text”.

[Adem Lee]

You have given her mental torture for four years, and now you want her to accept in three days that it’s not going to happen, so you’ve destroyed any respect she had for you. Respect is something you have to earn back; it’s not something you can beg for.
Threatening suicide is a manipulative tactic; this is not love, this is toxicity. No girl wants to be with a guy who wants to stop her by threatening her with his life.
And I appreciate AskApril’s expert advice; she was absolutely right to say to stop hiding your face at university, behave normally, smile, and give her positive vibes so she can see that there has really been a change.

[Adem Lee]

You feel like ex is “the one”, no, he’s just an escape. You need to get away from your current boyfriend, so ex seems like a good option. Remember, someone who can’t be with you due to financial reasons will support you in difficult times?
Ask April absolutely right that your real issue isn’t the breakup; it’s your housing situation. Find a job, get some roommates, but don’t drag out a relationship just to keep a roof over your head. Don’t let the breakup linger; end it quickly and avoid creating any more drama.

[Adem Lee]

It’s clear in this whole chat that you’re over-invested while the guy is giving low effort. When someone says Think what you want’ or ‘do what you want, it means they don’t care whether you’re still angry or if you’ll leave.
And AskApril is absolutely right that when someone is being evasive, that is the answer. You were asking for a proper reason from him, but the guy had rejected you. Instead of being pacifistic, you should accept rejection and move forward, and focus on those people who really want to meet.

[Adem Lee]

You are 54 years old, no child. Do you want to spend the next half of your life in fear or with dignity? The decision is yours. He is not beating you now because he is afraid of the police, not because he respects you. So, just end this fear now and show him his worth.
Don’t teach children that their mother was a ‘victim’, show them that their mother is a ‘tigress’.

[Adem Lee]

That guy was on stage, thousands of girls were watching him, you were just a “prop” of his show for that night, you’re sitting here lost in his show, and he’s probably kissing someone else in the next city. Understand the difference between fantasy and reality.
And AsakApril rightly suggested that if this one incident has made you feel like your two-year relationship is over at the age of 23, you should take some time and then move on. Perhaps, the high of being noticed by a performer might be temporary, so she shouldn’t rush into a breakup.

[Adem Lee]

Ask April was absolutely right that if you stay together, you will always be in tension and doubt. It is better to move on and find a girl whose values ​​match yours.
Anyway, the girl is also in exploration mode, and you are in settle-down mode. Let her enjoy the festival. You save your self-respect.
Please stop saying “one” to the girl who is giving preference to your emotions over her own urges.

[Adem Lee]

Hi, Sara
Leave him alone with his books and discipline. You are such an energetic girl. You don’t want someone who will make you a part of his life, not a free-time hobby.
Stop chasing a man who only misses you when he has nothing else to do. You are not a side dish, you’re the main course. Tell him to go to Germany and make love to a robot there and you want someone who can feel you, not regulate you.
Still waiting for AskApril’s take on this! I can’t wait to see what she says about this ‘mission-driven’ situation.

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