[Saman]

Listen, when someone is talking about you, the most powerful thing is “silence”. By giving this guy a long letter, you are giving him the power to judge you. Instead, be calm and classy enough that he thinks that what he heard was probably a lie.
And I really liked AskApril’s expert advice
It is better to change your behavior than to offer excuses. When you meet or talk to him, he should see that you have changed.
Walk away and “try not to stir the pot in any way”. Repair your reputation not with your words but with your new character.

[Saman]

He has friend-zoned you by calling you “Best Friend” and has also taken “free access”. As long as you are available to him at all times, he will never consider you a prize. Show him that your time is not that cheap.
AskApril has given absolutely expert advice that if you feel bad about all this, then just be roommates. And if you want to sleep with him, then keep in mind that he will still bring other girls home and have relationships with them. Now the decision is in your hands, whether you prioritize your self-respect or this temporary attention.

[Saman]

I felt really bad after reading this post. That man was really cheap, while your health is very expensive and precious. I really liked AskApril’s expert suggestion that there is no point in going to this man’s wife, because it will only create unnecessary drama.
It is better to go to the doctor immediately and get yourself fully tested. Whatever the man or his wife says, only your medical reports will tell you the real truth.
I also think you should get all the tests done, and when the reports come clear consider that day as your ‘Independence Day’. Stop wasting time with a man who doesn’t even care about your health and safety. It is time to burn this chapter forever and move on in life.

[Saman]

Ask April was right about going to that restaurant again and again, but here I will also say that when you go there, go as if you came to buy that restaurant, not to ask for it back. Look sexy, feel confident, go with one of your “hot” friends, laugh with her, enjoy yourself, and completely ignore this guy. When he feels that your life is spicier without him, then his smile will be a little “nervous”. If he gives a cold response even after going again and again, then move on.

[Saman]

Sometimes relationships are fun because we know they’re not forever. If college separates you, then you’ll see what happens. For now, be the best version of yourself. Show him that you’re an independent and confident girl, not someone who cries about “long distance” all the time.
So, my dear! Be so high-value that you stop crying about the future and become so unforgettable in the present that no matter where college is, he won’t even think of leaving you.
And April is right that until college is finalized, there’s no point in the “stay or leave” discussion. Don’t just depend on your boyfriend. Focus on your friends and social circle so that all your happiness or sadness isn’t tied to just one person.

[Saman]

The girl is playing “Mind Games” with you, and you are dancing to her every signal by being a “Beta male”. Show her that your time is not so cheap that she can come and kick you whenever she wants. Did she ask for “Space” from you? Give her enough space that she feels like you have moved to another planet.
Leave her, go to the gym, post nice pictures, and get “Tagged” with another hot girl. When she feels like she has lost a “High-value man”, then the real fun will come. But until then, you should not need it. Stop being confused and be King.
And I totally agree with askApril’s expert advice that you should unfriend her, block her, and disconnect from everywhere to get “clarity” in your life. April is absolutely right that your mental health comes first.

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