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It is a bit cowardly to do something like that, but it’s also possible that the girl did it on her own and just made it seem like she was asked to do it. To be sure, just ask him directly when you get the chance to talk to him.

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Why don’t you just wait for her at the same time you both usually take the bus? When you see her, just greet her and start a conversation again.

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Just send it here anonymously—you’re anonymous here anyway, and no one will know who you really are.

[Grace]

You like her, but the problem is it seems like she’s not really interested in you.
You need to accept that and move on. You can still continue your connection with her if you’re hoping there might still be a chance, but don’t waste all your time on her.
Keep dating other people too, you might just find the person who is truly right for you.

[Grace]

Well, it’s quite simple. Since you’re in a good relationship now and those things happened when you didn’t have any commitment to each other, I don’t really see anything wrong with it.
The best thing you can do is stop stressing yourself over it and try to move on.

[Grace]

Since there’s still no clear direction for your relationship and both of you are not financially stable yet, you can still continue your connection with him and try to make it work even if it’s long distance.
But at the same time, don’t close your heart to other possibilities.

Don’t wait, because you might regret it in the end when you realize you invested a lot of time, but it all went to waste and led nowhere.

[Grace]

First of all, like you said, you can’t really stop her, so that means you don’t have much choice but to accept the situation you’re both in now.

The only thing you can really do is trust her and trust what you both have together. And of course, you also have to accept that you might meet someone else along the way too.

So in the end, everything really depends on how strong your relationship is. Not all relationships can survive long distance, but you still need to try and take that chance.

Just hold on to your love for each other and keep trusting one another.

[Grace]

It’s better if you don’t think too much about what your friend is saying for now. Just enjoy your date. You are the one who will decide whether you are okay with being kissed or not. If you’re not comfortable yet, just say so and explain it to your date.
Some guys can be like that, but it’s still up to you how you handle the situation. Just because he wants to kiss you doesn’t mean you have to agree.

[Grace]

You should have told him from the beginning that you were not comfortable with that kind of setup so it could have been discussed early on what needed to be done.

Now, if he is not willing to adjust for you, it might be better to end the relationship.

I can feel how hard this is for you, always feeling uneasy and overthinking things. You need to protect your peace of mind.

There are probably other ways for him to earn extra money for expenses. If he truly loves you, he wouldn’t let you feel this way

[Grace]

Treat it as a learning experience. So next time, don’t be the one always chasing a man, because they usually prefer to be the ones doing the chasing.
From the beginning, you gave him almost everything and didn’t leave much for yourself, so it felt like there was no challenge anymore, and that’s why he may have lost interest.
I know it’s painful and difficult, but you need to accept that he is not the right man for you. You should choose your partner wisely, and it’s clear that he is not the one.
For sure, God will give you the right person in time. Just trust Him and trust the process.

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