[Bryer Rocky]

This ex-boyfriend is exactly the kind of guy who says, “I left you, okay, but how did this girl end up with someone else?” As long as she was single, he didn’t care. As soon as he smelled the new guy, he suddenly remembered his son and family. This is not love, just jealousy, in the name of the kid who is texting every 2 hours.

The new guy is in the Navy and is looking for movie-like ways to say I love you. Look, everything seems great at first, especially when you’re coming out of a toxic relationship. But the girl needs to be a little more sensible. It’s only been 2 months; there’s no need to give her “heart and soul” so quickly.
Ask April was right about only having a “co-parenting” relationship with your ex. If he talks nonsense or asks about anything other than the kid, ignore him. If he’s asking for photos or asking unnecessary questions, there’s no need to respond right away, reply after 2-3 days so he understands that he’s no longer your priority. Enjoy your new guy, but keep an open mind. Life isn’t as cinematic as it seems in the first couple of months of a new relationship

[Bryer Rocky]

Your fear is completely justified. A group of guys is nothing less than a “security wall”. If you go there and make even the slightest mistake, they will harass that guy for the whole week. But you’re saying “I’ll wait for him to be alone”, Dear, that studious boy is alone only in the library, and if you talk to him there, it will be “Sssshhh!”!
AskApril, you are absolutely right! Many girls just wait for the perfect timing. Your point is very vivid that flirting is a skill that can be learned.
Their fear of a group of friends can be eliminated if they follow the body language techniques you have mentioned in the book and the principles of “Think & Date Like A Man”.
Getting attention without being noticed is real smartness.

[Bryer Rocky]

When a girl says after 4 years of a serious relationship, I can’t control myself anymore, can I go mess around with others?’ she’s not actually asking for permission. She’s mentally preparing you for what’s coming. She probably already has someone in mind. She just wants to hear “yes” from you to clear her guilt.
And Rahul, what you’re saying is “I’ve never stopped her from doing anything,” man, that’s not a medal! Saying “no” in a relationship is as important as saying “I love you”.
If you kill your self-respect to keep her happy, she won’t love you; she’ll rule over you. And remember, when a man loses his respect, a girl also loses attraction to him.
Wow, AskApril made a very profound point that a girl’s desire to sleep with others is not a “vote of confidence” in your relationship. That one sentence is enough to wake up Rahul.
AskApril made Rahul think, do you really want to marry a girl whose sexual needs are dearer than your loyalty?

[Bryer Rocky]

The boyfriend’s intentions were clear; he was grooming this other girl as a backup option. Even when he was in Germany, he was calling her “good looking” this is no normal friendship. He was so eager to meet her that he even tried to sneak into an election party,
Wao.
Here, AskApril advised the girl to change her behavior so the guy would stay interested in her, but I think loyalty is not a prize earned by hard work; it is the foundation of a relationship. If the guy wanted attention, he should have talked to his partner, not gone through the inbox of an old crush.
And behold, the guy stopped when the other girl didn’t give him a lift. If the girl had said “yes,” this story would have been different today.
If you want to stay in this relationship, you have to understand that you have not caught your boyfriend, but his potential cheating. Peace will not come until the guy takes full responsibility for his mistake and stops making excuses.

[Bryer Rocky]

The “ups and downs” in a relationship are when both partners face a problem together. When one person suddenly starts ghosting and canceling dates, it’s often a sign of emotional withdrawal.
Listen! You’re not asking out of “fear.” The truth is, silence is not the solution. If he wants to leave, he won’t stop just because you aren’t asking questions; instead, your time and mental health will only deteriorate further.
Anyway, a relationship shouldn’t be a guessing game. If there’s no peace, it’s not a relationship, it’s just a burden.
AskApril, what do you think about it? Waiting for your expert advice.

[Bryer Rocky]

You said that Carlo was “The One” for you, but still, the breakup happened. If he were truly your true love, it wouldn’t have reached friendship. This friendship is actually a Slow Poison that is preventing you from starting a new life.
When you are having flashbacks of old romances after seeing the text, then it is not friendship, but an Emotional Hangover. You are trying to keep old feelings alive by hiding behind friendship.
In my opinion, this clean breakup is nothing more than a label. You are just picking at old wounds in the name of friendship. If you truly want to move on, you need to take Carlo out of the “Friend Zone” and put him firmly in the “Past Zone.

[Bryer Rocky]

Girl meets, has fun, but doesn’t call for “exclusivity”? This means she is enjoying the buffet but doesn’t want to finalize the menu. If after two months the girl hasn’t given any signal, then there are high chances that you are just a placeholder for her until a better option is found.
You are terrified that you’ll scare her away. But the truth is, when someone truly loves you or is serious about you, a question like “What are we?” doesn’t frighten them; it actually brings them peace. He’s only afraid because, deep down, you already know the answer might be ‘No
I think you should pull back a little. When you are always available, the next guy doesn’t feel the need for commitment because he is getting everything for free.
Anyway, if the girl were actually serious, you wouldn’t need to ask this on this forum. Silence is also a message, and you are simply failing to read it right now!

[Bryer Rocky]

How “smart” is your friend that he is openly mentioning this woman’s name on the phone? This means that these things were happening among friends as a matter of pride. You did not tell the girlfriend the truth yourself, but you were caught. If it had not been for the phone call, this matter would probably never have come to light.
Your girlfriend is still 23, quite young. Breaking trust at this stage means that now she will always have this question in her mind: The next time he goes out with friends, will he get drunk and fall into ‘temptation’ again?
I think forgiveness is possible, but the relationship will never be as “pure” as it was before. The scar will always remain.
Ask April, what is your opinion? Do you agree with my point of view!

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