[Cherry Anne]

For me, it would be better if you accepted that she should distance herself from her friend for now, since she is still not really sure about what she truly wants. That way, you can help her focus more on staying in her relationship with you as a woman.

But this is not guaranteed. If she eventually realizes that she truly wants a woman, then maybe that’s the time to let her go.

For now, keep what you have and take care of it. Try to help her and encourage her to convince herself that you are the one she really wants.

[Cherry Anne]

There’s nothing wrong with you or with what you’re feeling. It’s just that the two of you don’t feel the same way. What happened between you is normal for teenagers. A lot of guys behave like that—they can be flirty until they get what they want, but that doesn’t always mean they genuinely like the girl.

My feeling is that it wasn’t just kissing he was after. I believe he may have wanted something more physical, but things didn’t go the way he expected. Then he met another girl and moved on.

Just because you became emotionally attached to him doesn’t mean he felt the same way about you.

[Cherry Anne]

There’s nothing you can do if he really only sees you as a sister or a friend. My advice is for you to move on from him and just accept the truth. Look for someone else, because there are really things we can’t control no matter how much we try to force them.

[Cherry Anne]

Don’t ask him out. He should be the one to do that. Yes, show him that you like him and that you enjoy being around him, but don’t chase him. That’s not a good idea for a woman. Show him you want to spend time with him, but wait for him to be the one to invite you out.

[Cherry Anne]

Your boyfriend is really being irresponsible—your baby is only two months old and he’s already leaving you for trips abroad.
Be strong, but if you can’t handle it anymore, it might be better to break up with him, then sort out the legal child support for the baby. It’s hard, but you also need someone better to be with in life, not someone like that.

[Cherry Anne]

Just send your message here instead. We can help you with your problem, and maybe you’ll get good advice from one of the members that can help you.

[Cherry Anne]

It’s hard to understand—I don’t know who you are in that situation or who you’re talking to—but I think if the guy doesn’t want to meet up, then he’s not interested.

[Cherry Anne]

Talk to him and tell him that you’re hurt and uncomfortable with what he’s doing. Then, if he doesn’t listen, you should break up with him. Because if he can’t even give you simple peace of mind, what reason is there to continue the relationship?

You’re not trying to control him, but it’s also important that you protect your own emotions.

[Cherry Anne]

Hi Hannah, I’m new here too. I hope I can get help and also help others with their problems 🙂 Cheers. Cherry Anne.

[Cherry Anne]

Your story sounds so perfect, and then it suddenly fell apart after just 2 hours. Honestly, I also can’t see any clear flaw in the guy—except for the possibility that he may have already met this new girl, which could be why he left you.

You said you’re sure he didn’t cheat on you, but how sure are you really? Maybe you’re only saying that because he treated you so well before. Maybe you didn’t notice that he was already cheating because you were so busy taking care of your mother at the time.

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