Hi, i’m a high school student. My boyfriend and I had been dating for a couple of months. He was really sweet and caring. He is the first person I ever felt really deeply about. When summer break came around I thought we were going to be fine…
a couple days ago he broke up with me over a text. He said that he was going to miss me too much over the summer and he couldn’t fool himself into thinking that he’d see me. i told him i was willing to do what ever i had to to be able to see him but he didn’t listen…(his mom doesn’t want him dating for religious reasons so its hard for us to go places sometimes)
Ive talked to him twice since then over texts and told him that i want to fix this but if he doesn’t want to i’m willing to move on if that makes him happy… He has said that he thinks maybe in the future we can get back together. Which made me hopeful but also a little confused about why he’d break up with me in the first place. He said he still wants to text but he” not in the mood to talk to anyone right now. I told him that was fine and when he is ready i’ll be around… I also told him that i don’t want to move on. He was kinda speechless after that like he was expecting me to get a new guy right away.
He hasn’t seemed any happier about this though and i just want to get back together because i’m not feeling good either…
How can i convince him that we can see each other and there is no reason to break up? should i salvage the relationship? my friends tell me no but i really want to… he’s a really great guy who makes me feel great about myself. I don’t want to lose that…
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