My girlfriend disrespects me

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    justaguy
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    Well, I’ll start off by saying I have been dating this girl for about a year now. I love her more than anything. But she disrespects me all the time. I tryed to talk to her about something that upset me today, and she responded with “THEN BREAK UP WITH ME!” She told me later she said this because she knows I love her and she knows I would not do it. Otherwise if I try to talk to her about issues she will literally be sarcastic until she pisses me off enough. I feel like she always tries to be right. Basically, I just don’t understand how if she loves me she would want to hurt me by saying things like that.

    Now it’s not always like this. The times it isn’t, we have the most amazing time we could ever have. When we get along it’s the most amazing feeling I could ever feel. So for me, breaking up isn’t an option. I just don’t know what to do about when we do fight…

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    April Masini
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    If you’re not willing to break up with her, and she is disrespectful to you, and your voiced concerns are met with, “Well, then break up with me!”, you’re stuck, buddy! 😕 Your girlfriend isn’t interested in your feelings enough to tone done her criticism, even though she knows it hurts you.

    If you don’t feel worthy of being treated like a prince, then you’re not going to be treated like one. Self esteem is all about your inner worth. If you don’t feel like you have inner worth, then you’re not going to be treated as if you have it.

    Sorry, but you’re going to be treated the way you allow yourself to be treated. She’s not interested in change, and neither are you!

    😐

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