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Help – he wants a break!!

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  • September 30, 2009 at 8:58 am #1293
    relationshipa1
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    Hi everyone, I was going out with a man for nearly 6 months and everything (well i thought) was going grand. He was the one who came after me at the beginning and eventually I gave it to him and we often laughed about it. He was always ringing and texting me and telling me how much he was mad about me etc etc etc and it was not a case that I was totally distant I agreed and told him that I really did like him etc etc. Then he got bad news about his father and everything seemed to go downhill. He got the news on the sat and I had a meeting on Sunday that I couldnt get out off and he told me to go and he understood. He kept in touch all day sun and on mon and then on Monday he came to visit me as soon as I got home and was all attentive and for the past two weeks he had been down but he talked about everything then out of the blue he told me one morning that he needed “a break” but didnt want to finish basically he didnt know what he wanted. I have since found out that he cheeted on me that night I was away. He is still trying to keep in contact although I havn’t told him yet that I know as I am waiting on the details. I jst dont know what to do or whats going on with him. Please give me advice as I am going off my head and I am trying to avoid contact with him to give him his space!

    September 30, 2009 at 9:53 pm #10019
    April Masini
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    If you’re 100 percent sure that he cheated on you, then why would you want to go back with him?

    If you need some closure, to say goodbye, or if you need to confront him because you’re 90 percent sure he cheated, but want to hear it from him so that you can be 100 percent sure one way or the other, then you should contact him and ask him if that’s what happened.

    It definitely sounds like there’s been some change in his behavior, and it’s impossible to have a working crystal ball or to be able to read his mind, so either trust that he cheated on you and move on — no break necessary — or have a face to face and ask him what happened and if what you’d heard is true.

    Regardless, if after 6 months of dating your boyfriend tells you he needs “a break”, then I wouldn’t advise you to waste another minute of your precious time with him! There are men out there who wouldn’t give you up for all the world for “a break.” If he can’t appreciate you, then you’re much better off with someone else, who will! 🙂

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