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September 21, 2010 at 6:05 am #2588
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Keymaster[size=150]Hi April,I’ve been interested in a guy (one of my friends) for about 2 years but was not sure whether I do really love him.First we were just friends but 6months back we got more close to each other and I too felt that he loves me too.But I didn want to ask him out until he did, I was trying to give him clues that I’m interested. And one day he asked me whether I love him, because he feels that I do love him.But I didn want to say yes at once so I simply said I don’t know & I asked him the same question and he gave the same answr (i dnt knw).
After few months, we started loosing contact with each other & he was busy with his work. We don’t even meet each other now, but we live in the same town so accidently we used to meet each other. We are in the same club in the church but now he does not even attend for the meetings he says he’s busy with his studies and work.He shows his willingness to attend meetings but yet he doesn’t.
Now I really do understand that i love him and our goals and ambitions do align too.Since he was also interested in me sometime back, I want to be in touch with him again and should really know whether he still loves me? What can I do? how can i get to know whether he still loves me and How can I get things back to normal as how it was early? I really do love him & I want him to know it.
Thanx. Please prompt a good response
Luv Keryne
[/size] September 21, 2010 at 11:48 pm #16119April Masini
KeymasterHi Keryne: How old are you and how old is he? Has he ever asked you out on a date? I wasn’t clear from your post if the two of you have ever dated.
Please let me know and with this information I’ll give you some advise.
September 22, 2010 at 6:58 am #15372vinukilove
ParticipantHi April, Well, I’m 22 years and he is 23years. I’m still doing my higher studies full time. But he’s involved in work + part time studies. So on average he’s busy than me. No we have never dated, and he has never asked me out on a date. But once when we spoke over the phone I remember he asked me whether we should go out for a movie, but I thought he must be just kidding, so I was kind of saying NO. Specially because i didn’t want to go out for a movie as a very first date instead if he asked me out for lunch or dinner probably i would have said Yes. Again twice he asked me whether we could go out for a movie & i replied him yes we all can go (what i meant was with friends). But now I feel i gave the wrong answer. Actually I was not sure whether he was serious or not, because he’s a humorous person and always used to crack jokes.
I want to be in touch with him again and express the way I feel for him, but have the fear of being rejected.As the first and foremost step what can I do?
September 22, 2010 at 10:48 pm #14580KeymasterYou definitely sent him the wrong signals. Men want something to chase after, and when you shot him down because you didn’t like the idea of a movie as a first date 😯 and then by saying you’d go out in a group when he wanted to go out only with you, you didn’t give him something to chase at all.😳 Get my book, Think & Date Like A Man — AND READ IT!! You’ll learn a lot of what you need to know to get a man to ask you out on a date. Here’s the link:
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[url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100001113133958[/url] September 23, 2010 at 5:05 am #15063Anonymous
ParticipantCan I do something as a quick move to compensate on what I did. I mean any other way of making him feel that I’m ready for a date with him. please i need a quick response…. thanks 😕 September 23, 2010 at 5:06 pm #15751KeymasterYes! You can. All the tricks and tips for compensating and getting back on track are in the book, Think & Date Like A Man, that I recommended to you when I wrote you last. You can read it straight through or thumb to the pages that address your particular situation. The book downloads automatically, so you can get it right away. Here’s the link again:
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[url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf [/url] September 24, 2010 at 6:36 am #16016ParticipantCan I get this book through Amazon? Is it available in local bookshops? 🙂
I currently locate in Sri Lanka, that’s the issue AprilSeptember 26, 2010 at 6:19 pm #16189KeymasterThe best place to get the book is at this link. [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html [/url] I hope that helps.
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