Please help quickly

I am sorry that you are having to go through this. The last thing you need while you are trying to stay healthy is to stress about this relationship. I think that if your ex is truly interested he would call you or email you himself as opposed to going through a friend. That being said, maybe you should call him or write to him and explain how you are feeling, that way the ball will be in his court. At that point, though, I think it would be very difficult to not obsess on if he was going to answer if not. I think you should go to your friends and family for support, concentrate on your health, and if your exboyfriend calls you, see how that goes. For what it is worth, you have my sympathy and prayers. I have gone through difficult and painful breakups before, and I can’t imagine how difficult your health struggles are.

This is a difficult situation when mistrust is involved, but it’s impossible to be resolved. I want you to have the confidence that this man response to you in a positive way, but if you keep thinking about the past and not trusting your instinct, then you will not take first step. We all make mistake and sometimes in our life face some kind health crisis whether it’s mental or physical. Hope you get well soon and get back to the man that loves you. He been skeptical because of the past but don’t give up on him yet once he gets the fact things will eventually lighten up. Relationship is a two way street you both have to work together.
My advice to you is don’t entirely depend on him for your happiness because happiness come from within. What you need to do is get advice from people who you trust and respect about your situation. Don’t since send the x ray yet and just relax a bit. Don’t send or text message. These form communications aren’t effective when it comes relationship building. What you need do is write him a personal letter from the heart and don’t try to convince. Let it just flow about how you feel and your illness update. I hope I was able to give you a good advice. God bless:}