FIrst of all, an apology is not a remedy. Just because you apologize doesn’t mean that the other person has to accept your apology, so understand that sometimes there is a price to be paid for bad behavior, and that price is irrevocable. You’ve withheld information from him even though you were in love with him (real, mature love means showing your whole self to someone) and you went behind his back and talked to a friend when you knew he’d asked you not to — and the fact that he’d asked you not to wasn’t the problem. The problem was that once again you were dishonest with him.
He isn’t interested in your apology or getting back together. So this relationship is over. But what you CAN do is to learn from your mistakes and begin to change your own behavior so that next time you’re with someone you can be honest with them and let them decide whether or not they want to be with you based on the truth, not a false picture of who you want them to think you are. 😳
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