just got involved with a women a few months ago. we’re both in our 40s. very mature relationship. not like two jealous 20 year olds. very open about our past. both divorced. we tell each other about past sexual adventures. for the most part, these “adventures” are tame. one that she told me, though, kinda suprise me. in college, she cheated on her bf with his best friend. And they did it in her bf’s car. he had passed out after a party. they took him home in his car. and then drove off and parked. questions:
1. im recently divorced. she’s been divorced for 10 years. she’s had more recent adventures for obvious reasons. does the fact that she did this in college mean that she may have done things like this recently and has had numerous partners – health issues? a sign that she could do something like this to me? OR is this typical college stuff? she told the story with a laugh, as if to say it was a long time ago – when I was “young and dumb.” She actually even used that expression. is it “young and dumb” or is a sign of how she is even today?
2. one of my responses was “oh, you probably weren’t that serious.” she said she was serious. they dated for four years and almost got engaged. two years in college and two years after. but this happened in college – two years into the relationship. bad sign? that she was serious with the guy at the time?
3. is there a thrill for the women in this? being naughty? going with your bf’s friend in a you
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