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Oral question

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  • January 6, 2012 at 10:24 am #4784
    someoneinaustx
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    Be strong… he doesn’t get what he wants until you get what you want. You are giving up power to him which he will willingly take as long as he can.

    And as a guy, I can tell you that any one who can only come from oral sex is either lying, or has mental problems.

    When it comes to sex, women MUST take charge and make sure their needs are met. I am a guy, and I am telling you this.

    Good luck!

    January 7, 2012 at 12:29 am #21364
    April Masini
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    You’ve only known each other for three months, so you’re really still getting to know each other in every way. Sometimes sex changes as people get more comfortable with each other, however, you can really tell a lot about a person in bed. It doesn’t sound like he’s very generous in bed, and this is probably going to translate into other parts of the relationship outside of bed. He also may not be comfortable talking about sex, as you sound like, in spite of what you say is embarrassment, you actually are. Don’t give up and keep the communication going, but at the same time, make sure as you get to know him that this is really someone you want to continue investing in a relationship with. 😉

    I hope this helps. Let me know how things go — and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1154528031[/url].

    January 7, 2012 at 12:46 am #21392
    someoneinaustx
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    Your words were “He needs oral sex to climax”, not mine. The inference from you is that he cannot climax any other way. I like oral sex, as do a lot of men, but that’s not the only way I can have an orgasm. If he is unable to reach orgasm through penetration, then something in his head is preventing it from happening (hence the mental comment). I am not suggesting he is a nut case. How would I know?

    Back to the other part of your post: don’t be afraid to be more aggressive in the bedroom. Women have to take more responsibility to ensure it is a pleasurable experience for them than do men. Men make sure they are pleased, and not much else. Tell him “I will be happy to finish you off with my mouth, but first you have to finish me off with yours!”

    Don’t let him off the hook!

    January 8, 2012 at 4:24 pm #21736
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    It does seem like something psychological is keeping him from climaxing in any other way besides through oral sex. Talk to him about this. It’s another way to get to know him further. 😉

    Please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link; [url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1154528031[/url].

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