I’ve been dating this guy for about 6 weeks. We have a lot in common and he’s very sweet and kind. There’s a lot I really like about him, and I could see myself falling in love with him.
Backtrack to last spring, before I filed for divorce. There’s this guy at church with whom I have been acquainted for a couple of years. Back in March or April we saw each other for the first time after quite a while. I hadn’t yet filed for divorce but I had made up my mind that I was going to once I got my ducks in a row. He was very supportive and he encouraged me to reach out if I needed anything.
I sent him a couple of emails. He responded to the first one, but then I think I might have pushed it too far. He kind of ignored me. Then I didn’t see him again. I figured I screwed it up and just moved on.
In May I filed for divorce from my husband of 11 years (I had been unhappy for at least 9 of them and it was just time.)
In August I met this great guy. He’s a musician and so am I, and we enjoy doing a lot of the same things. There are a couple of things that give me pause, but we are taking things slow and I was just enjoying the ride.
Last Sunday I went to church and M was there. We caught up a little bit and he suggested we do coffee or something sometime. I had kind of forgotten about him, but as soon as I saw him all those feelings came back, and now I’m not really sure what to do.
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