Well…. since Christmas has come and gone, this is a good time for me to remind you that if you want your question answered as a “Rush”, just opt for a Premium response from me on this site — you’ll jump to the front of the line! 🙂
My advice about splitting up on the holidays is that if it works for both of you, then it’s fine. The most important thing is that you’re both okay with whatever you decide. You don’t have to be bound by societal traditions — do your own thing! Whether you’re together, apart, apart for some or part of the holidays or not with family at all, is less important than that you find a solution that works for your relationship.
Hope you had a nice Christmas — and remember to use Premium Response for any questions you want me to answer right away, next time. 😉