We had a happy & smooth relationship before but when I moved here, we fight a lot & I feel like we’re having a competition. He’s paranoid that I might get my own happiness here. He said all I wanted was to go out and just be happy selfishly wherein Im just always w/ my fam. I always tell him stories cus I was happy w/ the new places that Ive been to but he told me to stop cus he doesnt care
Me: Babe u know ur mom’s right. Maybe ur just insecure.
I meant he’s insecure that Im gonna found another guy & replace him. He got mad, blocked me & never talks to me for 2 wks. After that, I talked to him asking if he still wants me. He said NO. I agreed, I got confused.
After a month, he’s drunk saying that he love me so much, he’ll wait for me & stop talking w/ girls. I was waitin what will happen next but nothing happens. He didnt even greet me on my bday. I asked him y.
Him: I dont love u anymore. Someone’s making me happy & she can prove more than u can
Me: Why her?
H: Time heals (played with his feelings before). Im sorry but friendship is all I can give. If we’re meant to be, we will be
Seems like he finds his comfort zone with that girl during our dyadic phase. 3 months is not enough for him to forget his love for me. If I didn’t move here, this won’t happen. His family & friends love me. His mom even told me that she still wants me for his son. I love him so much. I don’t know why I still do. I swear I don’t feel any anger.
Any advice?
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