I’ve been with Missy(not real name) for 6 years now and we spend very little time with each other.She claims she works TWO 40 hour/week jobs but yet she demands money from me every month.She doesn’t let me kiss her…and barely even lets me hug her.She NEVER lets me come over to her place(claiming she doesn’t want her parents to find out about me…she’s 37 by the way)the only time she wants to see me is if I have money in my hand.She’s know talking about having a kid with me, but I think she just wants me to pay child support for a kid that’s NOT mine.Please give me some advice on how to approach this problem.
Please reread your post and then imagine it was your best friend who explained this situation and asked you the same question… What would you say? I think you already know…
My response is one word — [b]RUN![/b]
Cease all contact and get as far away from this woman as you can. There are plenty of sincere single women out there, the woman you described is [i]not[/i] one of them.
it doesnt seem like shes giving in this relationship. why are you giving her money if you dont live with her? BIG no-no. end it. see what she does. it can change a selfish girl if she does love you. stop giving her money. my advice honestly this doesnt sound like a healthy relationship. id just end it. invest your money into you & then later when the right person comes along the two of you would share eachothers incomes like your supposed to when your married or living togehter, etc. not like your doing. good luck. dump her.