[katy]

hello,

i am 22 years old currently taking a year off .while planning to continue studies next year.

i met him “29 years old” on tinder 3 months when i was in a diffrent city that ”400km away from mine” also he just moved in to my country for work.

we have been dating for 3 months and meeting as much as possible over the weekends.

now he seems to be questioning everything about his life and work …having some kind of quarter life crisis. and he said all he can do is talk to me with honnest heart while isolating himself .

i need advice.

yours.

katy.

[AskApril Masini]

He’s not ready for a relationship. You are. That’s an incompatibility. Men have a lot of their self esteem tied up in their jobs and careers and he’s at an age where a landmark birthday is coming. He’s probably measuring up where he is, where he wants to be, and how to get there. I sense there’s a gap between what he wants and what he has. You seem a little more stable and it sounds like you want someone who’s stable, as well. Try to find a guy who is more available to be in a relationship because he’s already met a lot of the goals he has for himself at whatever age he’s at. Guys are usually ready for real relationships when they’re where they want to be in the rest of their life.

Hope that helps!

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