[quote]I believe I deserve certain things and an amazing marriage is one of them. When you get married you should always feel giddy and excited inside and instead I feel lost and lonely.[/quote]
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Uh oh…. It sounds like you’re very young and have an immature view of marriage. 😮 [b]Nobody[/b] who is happily married feels giddy and excited inside all the time. In fact people who do have amazing marriages probably [i]rarely [/i]feel giddy and excited. Instead, they feel peaceful and loving because they know they’ve chosen a compatible partner with whom they share love and mutual respect.
I think you mistook infatuation which is fleeting for love. Consider what you can do to be a better wife before you separate.
If you don’t have fun together any more, figure out what you can do that is fun — and do it! If he doesn’t like hanging out with you, then don’t hang out — go out! Make plans with friends to have parties — include people he likes. In other words, take responsibility for your part in the success of this marriage rather than feeling entitled to an amazing marriage and then being disappointed when what you have isn’t what you hoped for. 😉
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