I am 37 attractive fit girl 2 kids over 10 and dating a guy 43 – 6’4 a little over weight he has kids prior marriage. We have been dating for over a year and 1/2; we used to talk about moving in together buying a house, however, since he’s retired, he ended up buying a bar. That put the talks on marriage on hold – to chaotic. After the bar purchase, he was acting distant, since he said he was busy; I used to have all his passwords, he gave them to me, but I had no reason to check any emails; Since the distance, I decided to check his emails. Only to find out he’s on a dating site. I began monitoring it, to see if he was just browsing….. until now.. he started to send out messages – not a lot but a few. Should I be concerned, or do men just do this for fun. The messages are vague, like “hey want to talk to a great guy”. he does not have his picture on it.
